We All Hate Family Services!

Monday, July 17, 2006

Summer holidays?

During the school holidays our Sunday School closes down and the kids stay in the main service each week. This means that for part of July and all of August every Sunday is Family Service Sunday.

One of the (supposed) reasons for this is to give the Sunday School teachers a break. However, the running of the Family Services is controlled solely by the Sunday School teachers! So instead of having six weeks off they actually have to run the whole service for six weeks!

Where is the sense in that?

Tuesday, July 04, 2006

What is a Family Service?

This seems like a reasonable question to start with.

In case you are unaware, the vast majority of churches run Sunday Schools for the children and teenagers. Yes, I know that many of them have groovy names like Kids Club, Childrens Church, Tomorrows Church, Junior Church etc but when it comes down to it you can't beat the traditional 'cover-all' name of Sunday School.

However, the Bible is full of language about being 'Gods Family' and so we feel we should all meet together - adults and kids alike - every now and then. Also it gives the Sunday School Teachers a week off. So it is that we have a 'Family Service': All members of the church from 0 to 109 stay in the service and worship together.

The service itself should be slightly different to a normal service; a range of songs including childrens songs and 'adult' worship - be that hymns or modern songs - should be included. The children would normally take some active part, perhaps by doing a Bible reading or leading the prayers or (::shudder::) doing a drama. Finally the talk (sermon) should be accessable by all ages and abilities and preferably very short.

Does this ring true with the way your Family Services are supposed to run? Do they usually fit the profile or is the reality somewhat different to the template?

Next post I'll tell you what often happens in our Family Services.

Ernie.

Friday, June 30, 2006

Welcome!

Hi!

I've been a christian for over 25 years and every church I have ever attended has always had regular 'Family Services'. Sometimes they are called something else such as 'Family Worship' or 'All-Age Worship' or something radical with odd capitalisation like 'Re-ConneCt' but they all have one thing in common:

No-one, but NO-ONE likes them!

Seriously, every single comment I have ever heard about FS have been bad. Adults, children, service leaders, musicians - everyone.

So my questions are:
1) Why do we hate them?
and
2) Why do we continue to have them?

The drive to create this blog was inspired by a cartoon I saw here. I will add further entries as I begin to 'unpack' (latest sermon buzzword) the questions and seek answers to them. Please add your comments and your own horror-stories.

Please understand that I don't want this to be a minister-bashing forum. I seriously want to get to the bottom of these issues.

Hear from you soon I hope.

Ernie.